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Date: Wed Jun 11 04:00:05 2003
From: Mano
Subject: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
years ago?
Over the years attitudes change, you become more educated to facts,
loose your hangups, and just do different things to keep things more
interesting. What kind of things do you do?
My wife and I tried threesomes, both of us experimented with a little
bi play. Haven't done it since. We both enjoy using sex toys, never
did for first 20 yrs. Probably the biggest thing was me loosing my
hangups about my cum. Not being put off by it has opened up so many
doors to sexual fun and pleasure.
Let's hear yours!
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 20:30:11 2003
From: Frustrated Hubby
http://www.bianca.com/shack/parlor/questions/posts/2003_Jun_11/83931/83940.html
Subject: Marry a virgin.
I married a virgin. I was her first guy for intercourse, handjob,
blowjob or anything else sexual. She was completely a newbie to sex
- she didn't and doesn't masturbate, she never learned to be orgasmic.
Hence her attitude about sex is "what is the big fucking deal?"
And it's gone downhill after years of marriage.
We just had our 18th anniversary two months ago. I arranged a nice
dinner, limo, flowers. And I got squat - except for a cheap card,
a sigh before her head hit the pillow about the nice dinner then the
sound of her snoring.
Ain't that romantic?
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 12:47:35 2003
From: Crest
Subject: Re: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
I love taking it in my rear. I would never let anyone near it years
ago. Once I discovered how good it felt, I felt like I was an idiot
for not exploring anal years ago. My wife felt the same way after
I introduced her to anal.
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 10:42:35 2003
From: ARBY
Subject: Re: I would have never thought I'd love my cum
I wouldn't have thought , in a million years, that I would love to
eat my cum. I never did it until my wife had me pull out and let
me cum on her ass. My cum ran down her crack and over her asshole
and pussy. Her cum covered ass was sticking up at me and she shook
it at me and told me to eat her. I thought she was kidding, but she
said" Really, I want you to eat me clean". She only let
me near her ass on rare occations and this was an invitation to jump
in the pool. I was going in. It was probably one of the hottest things
I ever did to her. Now, whenever I pull out and cum on her, she knows
she is going to have more orgasms from an oral cleansing.
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 07:35:01 2003
From: Trace
Subject: Being a "slut"
I was married for 8 years. Before that I only had sex with boyfriends.
During my separation I started having having casual sex--meeting guys
and fucking them an hour later and then leaving. I used to find that
both unfulfilling and somehow "immoral." Now, I have no
problem thinking of a guy as a big warm fleshy cock that just happens
to be attached to a body, mind, and soul--but I can ignore all that
when I just want a cock in me.
That's also I think made me something fo a "wilder" lover.
I'm not coy or inhibited when I'm with a guy I figure I'll probably
never see again-I don't CARE what he thinks of me, so let him think
I'm a total whore who will do anything.
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 05:39:58 2003
From: harv
Subject: Experimented
a bit with bisexuality. I used to really think it was sick but have
begun to think I am just missing a possible good feeling. As a result
I have stroked another's cock and really wished that I had tried sucking
it. I just was not quite ready. It was a great cock, too. Really hard
and nice sized. I have used dildos on myself and had this guy had
a condom, would have let him have my ass. My wife says a real cock
is much better than a dildo, so I can only imagine.
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 04:31:04 2003
From: hetero guy who avoids relationships
Subject: Re: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
I stopped having sex with women. No matter what they tell you at first,
they all eventually want a relationship.
In Response To: What do you do different now, that you wouldn't do
Date: Wed Jun 11 04:12:33 2003
From: Linda
Subject: Good question
Reminiscent of "If I only knew then, what I know now."!
Let's see, pornography. At one time I found it disgusting... and
NOW look where I hang out!
We've never experimented with bi- or threesomes and (though I've learned
to "never say never") I don't believe we will. It's not
really a fantasy for us.
The internet has helped me get in touch with a submissive streak I
always knew I had, but never could put a name to. So bondage, light
s/m, distinct roles of D/s are now a regular part of our sex lives
that weren't before.
Good question!
In Response To: Good question
Date: Wed Jun 11 06:57:43 2003
From: Andy
Subject: Re: Good question
Same here. My wife used to hate porn but now she surfs the net as
much as I do and she enjoys the links that I send her from my office.
She would never even look at dildos or vibrators and swore she didn't
masturbate and now she has a collection that is ever expanding and
now masturbates whenever she feels the urge. I have always been pretty
much into "regular" sex, nothing kinky(she wouldn't allow
it) but now I have turned into one of those older married guys who
enjoys almost anything. I enjoy my cum, licking it, sharing it, whatever.
I also like recieving pleasure with a dildo as much as giving it.
My wife puts a strapon dildo on every couple of months and gives me
a good night of fun.
Never did threesomes, doubtful we will,but who knows?
