Part 2 Incest Stories

Incest, just like any other relationship, some are good, wonderful, loving and enjoyed. When there are others that are bad and wish never happened and trying to forget.

On the web you can find both sides of the story. Stories of very loving and caring love relation and lover inside the family and stories of the opposite. So to say all incest relationships are bad or all are good, would be a false conclusion. But the government assumes all are bad and abusive and sends people to jail.

For hundreds of years there were no rules on incest, then Moses wrote laws to solve some practical problems of the time. The practical problem was for many generations there was a lot of incest; as a result, the gene pool was getting smaller and smaller causing birth defect problems. So to solve the problem, they make a rule of no more making babies with very close relations, which we call incest, which are spelled out in Exodus 21. Today the same problem can be solve with condoms and modern birth control, which prevents birth to close relations.

But what people do is turn their brain off and become very legalistic and blindly follow rules with out thinking why. Why was there no rule or problem about incest for hundreds of years? Then they make some rule to solve a problem thousands of years ago and we just follow the same rule today blindly without thinking why.

Sexual desire, and sexual love is not evil, God designed and said it was very good. Just like everything else we need to apply the law of love to it.

But for a government to blindly declare that all incest love and sex is evil and send people to jail is way over broad and mindless to say the least. They are mindlessly following some law make thousands of years ago without asking why.

There are many laws on the books that are totally ignored. Again they pick and choose which ones they want to enforce.

The real problem is not incest itself, but the lack of love and understanding how to love and understand people. People have different sexual desires. Some people's love language is "physical" touch, hugs and kisses etc and they greatly love to be physical with a lover. Others, this is not their major love language.

Then there are others that have a low sex drive, low hormones, and little or no desire to be physical or touch another person.

So the "physical love language" one may love a loving passionate incest relation, if done with the right person, in the right way, and take slowly to check responses and desires of the other person, just like in any other lover relationship.

But because of legalistic Church that are blindly follow a long list of laws that don't apply for today. Also a government that is blindly following outdated laws and send people to jail, everyone that has a lover in the close relation family has to keep it top secret from everyone. The Internet let some of the secret stories of great family lovers come out in the open, as well as the bad ones.

Even though my girl friend enjoyed the loving, hugs, kisses and sex; the man make guilt of thinking she was doing something wrong because she could not tell anyone, caused guilt.

Conclusion by a young girl is that if we must keep it a major secret, then it must be wrong and therefore must be guilty of wrong doing, even though it felt so good and she enjoyed doing it a lot and it created a lot of love for her. This is what brings the battle in the mind. The church, society, and government create this man made guilt.

Just like 2 kids playing "Doctor". They go off to a hiding place and have a lot of fun exposing and playing with each others body, so they keep it a secret but feel guilt. If 2 children play with each other body, no one goes to jail. But if an adult plays with the child's body, he goes to jail.

As my girl friend told me the story, I did not know what to think. I first thought, that it must have been a lot of fun and I wish my mother seduced me and I would have had a lot of fun being my mother's lover.

But then when she told me that her father went to jail, I thought, how bad for her not to have her loving father around. I never heard my girl friend ever complain about her father as her lover and she taught me a lot about loving women the right way. She was my "teacher"; she was good, too.

But her sister did not have the same feeling about it. So you have it, 2 sisters, one enjoying the physical loving from her father, and the other one, it was a major problem and the father goes to jail.

Both had guilt, but my girlfriend loved the hugs, kisses, and sexual pleasure that she could live with any guilt that came along with the great joy and pleasure. But her sister with a much lower sex drive, low desire to be hug or kisses or have sex, the guilt overcame her and no pleasure for her, she disliked the whole thing and told someone about it.

Of course there are other issues, like jealousies of others. A person could have a wonderful loving incest relation that both are greatly enjoying and then they are caught. A jealous spouse turns it over to the police and they send the person to jail for child abuse. When the child greatly loves it and is brainwashed to think that it was bad and that she was being abused. Also told that her lover was a bad person and needs to go to jail for being bad.