Masturbation is a gift of God. Sex is a gift of God to us. Sexual lust is not evil lust, it is God designed human nature. Evil lust is hurtful and harmful to humans. Masturbation is healthy. Masturbation is good. Masturbation is God designed. Masturbation is good for you. Masturbation is for everyone to enjoy.
http://inkaboutit.homestead.com/index6.html1043 Masturbation and lust(3) From: Alise Subject: Re: Re: [~ Masturbation and lust
Chelle writes>>If I focus on sex enough, sure I am going to want to have sex.<<
So, what? We tell the young people, "Just stop thinking about it! Shut down your sexual feelings! Repress, repress, repress!" Then on their wedding night, when they haven't been allowed to feel sexual feelings for 9 years (and that's being conservative -- I'd say a lot of kids begin to have sexual feelings pretty young and don't get married until they're well into their twenties, Christians and non-Christians alike!), we tell them, "Give yourself completely to your spouse! How dare you not be in the mood? You don't own your body, she does! Be seductive! Be sexy! Be a great lover!"
People with eating disorders have to make a decision not to eat. And it's a very difficult thing to overcome once you've made that decision. Why do we expect something different for sex? Why do we tell teens to repress every sexual urge and then wonder why they have problems in that one area of their marriage 10 years later? We wouldn't expect an anorexic girl to one day just start eating -- why expect someone who has been starved from sex for YEARS to suddenly have an appetite for it?
In Him,
Alise
This page was last updated on: July 26, 2002
This page was last updated on: July 26, 2002
